Order of Christian Funerals I: The Vigil

By: S.Francesconi, editor | Last Updated: 07/15/2010 11:17

The vigil (or wake) service is the first of the three primary rites of the Catholic funeral liturgy. Along with the funeral liturgy itself and the rite of committal, these rites mark significant moments for the mourners as they come to terms with the loss of their loved one. Frequently, the vigil is the first public gathering of the deceased’s family and friends—an acknowledgment of the reality of the death when it feels so unreal. This time of keeping watch in the presence of the deceased is an invitation to share the memories that forged the bond between the deceased and the mourners. It includes both formal and informal opportunities for all to express their sense of loss and grief. It is in this context that the church invites mourners to recall “God’s designs for a world in which suffering and death will relinquish their hold on all whom God has called his own.” In the words of the scriptures and through prayers of intercession for both the deceased and mourners, the church reminds us that death is not the last word. Music plays an integral role in this rite, touching unspoken dimensions of both feeling and faith. Sung prayer allows the mourners to hear the faith that surrounds them. A priest, deacon, lay minister or even a family member may lead the prayer at the vigil.

This more formal vigil service may be preceded or followed by the recitation of the rosary or other devotions, if these prayers have special meaning for the gathered community.

Cultural practices are changing regarding funeral services. Certain elements are sometimes telescoped, resulting in one major liturgical moment (often the funeral liturgy) with an abridged time of vigil immediately before the liturgy or perhaps a private interment the next day. Christians are challenged to balance carefully what is lost and what is gained by these practices. The options chosen should respect the wishes of the deceased. But in a sense, funeral rites are for the survivors and so should best serve the mourners and the faith community.

©1997 Archdiocese of Chicago: Liturgy Training Publications, 1800 N Hermitage Avenue, Chicago IL 60622; 1.800.933.1800. Text: Kathy Luty.

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